life is like a song, all the high and low notes piece together to form a beautiful melody.
so do not think of bad experiences and pain/ hurt / disappointment as something to be avioded at all cost. these things all help to shape us into the person we grow to be, and builds our character. through these, ppl can be either bitter, or better. choose right to be stronger.
"the same sun that melts the wax, hardens the clay."